ADVICE

DO NICE GUYS FINISH LAST?

DATING

Dear Maria,

I treat women well, I have tremendous respect for them, I'm a nice guy, easy going, even cute. When I go on dates with what seems to be perfectly normal girls, why is it whenever it starts going well (2 or 3 dates in) they ghost me? -Utterly Confused

Dear Utterly Confused,

I'm going to be sweetly blunt here. This sounds like a pattern, and the common denominator in the pattern is you. It sounds like you are choosing women who are choosing to not love you. Where else in your life does this pop up? What other women are you allowing to "not love you". Mother? Grandmother? Sister? Past girlfriends? What is your relationship with them like? My advice for you is to see if you can remember the first time you chose to not be loved by a woman. Find the gifts within this. What I mean by this is what can you learn about yourself in this situation. What is this situation telling you about you? This will help you understand and let go of  the unserving unconscious energy that is keeping you from meeting a woman who will choose to love you.  

-With Love and Sincerity, Maria

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